Wait, porn is good and can teach you things? Isn’t it supposed to be bad for you and cause a lack of libido? Of course not.

We have compiled a list of a few things porn can teach you. And you can implement them all as early as your next sex adventure!

There Is a Porn Category For Everyone

We’re sure that you thought about how you were alone in your kinks and fetishes at least once. Thankfully, that’s not the case. Porn has a category that caters to anyone and their respective kinks.

Let’s be real — you probably found out you’re into something because you saw it in porn. That’s OK. After all, that’s how it usually goes; we all learn from porn in one way or another.

Having lots of categories allows for better exploration, not to mention that distinct categories make for convenient browsing. The more you watch, the more similar videos you will see because they’re often based on your activity.

Talking Dirty Is Good

Do you know how you want to say something during sex sometimes but you wonder if it’s too much? Most of us like talking dirty, but if you don’t, that’s OK too. However, one of the first porno lessons is that there’s nothing wrong with talking dirty.

There’s no shame in it. You can speak to your partner about it beforehand. Ask them if they’d enjoy it or participate in it, especially if it’s something that turns you on. You can even watch more porn to see what kind of dirty talk works for you. It’s all a click away.

READ: 11 Examples Of Dirty Talk That Have Nothing To Do With Gender

There Are Tons of Positions to Try

Do you ever get stuck doing the missionary over and over again? We’re not saying there’s anything wrong with that. After all, the missionary was the position that started it all for most of us. However, there are many more to explore and try out.

You can also google different positions, sure. But more often than not, Google is not that good at explaining them. You get a picture of what it should look like, but that’s it. A bit of text might follow it, but it’s not that good at illustrating it fully.

Porn can actually show you how to execute these positions like a pro.

Group Sex Is Awesome!

Pornos teach you that there’s nothing wrong with group sex either. Or threesomes, for that matter. Most of the people consider them… out of the ordinary. Sex is meant for two people only, right? Wrong. That cannot be more wrong.

Sex is inclusive. However, that doesn’t mean you can just go and have intercourse with a bunch of strangers. OK, you can, but safely. What you learn from porn is that group sex is not that unusual. More than just that, in fact — it’s incredibly fun too.

What’s not fun about everybody getting some multiple times? We can’t find a single thing!

Orgasm Is Important

This subject can be a bit touchy. Why? Some people have never experienced orgasms. Others never got someone to that point either. That can make you feel like you’re doing something wrong.

The truth is, we’re all different. Therefore, what makes us orgasm is subjective. Some people don’t benefit from penetrative sex at all. Sure, it feels amazing. But will it make them orgasm? Probably not. They require other types of stimulation.

It’s not just clitoral stimulation we’re talking about. Some people orgasm if you play with their nipples. What? It’s true! We all have unique erogenous zones, and we orgasm upon their stimulation.

With porn, most videos show that people orgasm at the end. Some even depict them getting multiple orgasms. Videos show how that looks for them. So don’t worry if reaching orgasm doesn’t look the same when it happens to you. There’s no right or wrong way to orgasm anyway.

Don’t Forget About Foreplay

Do you know what no porn video ever lacks? Good, lengthy foreplay. That’s what your sexual adventures should include too.

As we all know, sex isn’t just a penis in the vagina, and that’s it. Foreplay plays a crucial role in it all. It’s how you ensure your partner’s arousal. Also, it’s a way to ease both of you into something bigger and better.

On top of all that, foreplay is fun. Sometimes, it’s enough too. So if you’re ever not in the mood for full-on sex, you can always stick to just foreplay. You’re guaranteed to have fun either way.

There Are Different Oral Sex Techniques

What else can these porn stars teach you? There are different ways to please your partner orally — different techniques. It’s not just up and down or in-and-out motions. It’s OK to allow yourself some creativity.

Here’s how to determine if you’re doing the right thing. If it feels pleasurable, it’s good! There’s no need to worry about whether what you’re doing is strange or out of the ordinary. New ways to please your partner can definitely spice up your sex life.

You can also surprise them by learning new ways to please them and then demonstrating it.

Discover What Turns You On

If you’re still unsure what turns you on, watching porn can help you. How? Well, having read this article up until now should have already given you the answer, particularly knowing that porn sites have so many categories for you to explore.

Browsing porn is easy. There are so many things just waiting for you to discover. There’s no shame in finding new kinks or fetishes. Porn allows you to indulge in them safely, without any judgment. Unfortunately, people do judge, but here’s to hoping that your partner won’t!

By watching porn, you learn ways to incorporate your newly-discovered kinks into your sex life… Or relationship in general. You can also share your favorite videos with your partner. That’s how you can show them exactly what you want to do.

The porn industry has an incredibly bad rap, but all it does is help you figure out what you like or dislike.


This list includes only some of the lessons porn can teach you. Most of us don’t even think about all the things we’ve learned from porn until someone points them out. Like we have right now!

Porn can in no way harm you, so there’s no reason not to enjoy it.

Author: blackrabbit798